I want to have my quince on December 12 of this year. The problem is that my grandmother has recently passed away and the whole family is devastated about it. I already made my guest list and I know what color and theme I want. I have been trying to get my parents to help me start planning but they either keep ignoring me, are really busy, or they keep telling me that they will help me start planning the next day (which they never do). And I also keep asking and begging my mom to help me but she keeps bringing up my grandmothers passing and telling me to give her some time to breathe and to get over what happened to her mom. I understand that it’s been hard for her the past couple of weeks, but she needs to let go of the past, move forward, and focus on the present. I have been getting very frustrated because I have asked all my tias and tios but they are busy as well and sometimes I even consider giving up and not having a quince. I have also asked my older siblings (who are in their 20s) to help me start planning, but they keep telling me to get help from my parents. I am tired of people turning me down when I am simply asking for help, I have been asking for help since before my 14th birthday! Now I don’t know who to turn to or ask, nobody is helping me and I am becoming more and more worried each day that passes. I am worried that a lot of time is going to pass by with nobody helping me. I don’t know what to do, should I keep asking other adults, or keep asking my parents? Please help I am desperate!